The Loop of Faith™
Most people think trust requires a leap of faith.
But when the body no longer interprets the unknown as danger, trust begins to arise naturally — again and again. The truth is that trust isn't something that is built or forced. It is remembered.
This is what I call the Loop of Faith™.
The Loop of Faith™
Most people think trust requires a leap of faith.
But when the body no longer interprets the unknown as danger, trust begins to arise naturally — again and again. The truth is that trust isn't something that is built or forced. It is remembered.
This is what I call the Loop of Faith™.
The Path to Feeling Free
Freedom unfolds through a series of shifts in how we relate to the unknown.
The Path to Feeling Free
Freedom unfolds through a series of shifts in how we relate to the unknown.
A U-turn towards trust
After the U-Turn, something subtle begins to shift.
The moment that once triggered urgency, tension, and the need to regain control is no longer met in the same way.
The body begins to rediscover something it had long forgotten: that the moment something is out of your hands is not the beginning of danger.
It is actually an invitation to surrender.
This is what I call the Loop of Faith™.
In a way, your body already knows this.
After all, in that initial moment — before the mind rushes in to restore certainty — the body relaxes.
It knows.
It’s just that the ego quickly steps in and interprets that moment differently.
Because the ego believes that simply being who you are, isn't safe. In a twisted way, it is protecting your true self. But if you were in the essence of who you truly are, you wouldn't need protection at all.
A bit part of being able to re-enter that Loop of Faith™ is going back to innocence. To before you started to believe that the things that made it necessary to escape into your head.
Shedding the protective identity that formed around the Doom Loop™ allows something deeper to reappear.
You begin to remember something essential: You were never separate.
And in that remembering, the possibility of living in trust begins to return.
What starts to happen in the Loop of Faith™
After trust begins to return, you'll feel you don’t have to immediately replace control with a new plan.
Instead, you enter what I call -> the Waiting Room.
And whilst this is a place where you don't immediately jump into action, the Waiting Room isn’t passive.
It’s the space where life begins to meet you halfway.
Where you focus on what brings joy, curiosity, or aliveness in the moment — and allow inspiration, nudges, and unexpected opportunities to reveal the next step.
Not because you figured out the how. But because you stopped trying to control it.
Love, Femke
A U-turn towards trust
After the U-Turn, something subtle begins to shift.
The moment that once triggered urgency, tension, and the need to regain control is no longer met in the same way.
The body begins to rediscover something it had long forgotten: that the moment something is out of your hands is not the beginning of danger.
It is actually an invitation to surrender.
This is what I call the Loop of Faith™.
In a way, your body already knows this.
After all, in that initial moment — before the mind rushes in to restore certainty — the body relaxes.
It knows.
It’s just that the ego quickly steps in and interprets that moment differently.
Because the ego believes that simply being who you are, isn't safe. In a twisted way, it is protecting your true self. But if you were in the essence of who you truly are, you wouldn't need protection at all.
A bit part of being able to re-enter that Loop of Faith™ is going back to innocence. To before you started to believe that the things that made it necessary to escape into your head.
Shedding the protective identity that formed around the Doom Loop™ allows something deeper to reappear.
You begin to remember something essential: You were never separate.
And in that remembering, the possibility of living in trust begins to return.
What starts to happen in the Loop of Faith™
After trust begins to return, you'll feel you don’t have to immediately replace control with a new plan.
Instead, you enter what I call -> the Waiting Room.
And whilst this is a place where you don't immediately jump into action, the Waiting Room isn’t passive.
It’s the space where life begins to meet you halfway.
Where you focus on what brings joy, curiosity, or aliveness in the moment — and allow inspiration, nudges, and unexpected opportunities to reveal the next step.
Not because you figured out the how. But because you stopped trying to control it.
Love, Femke