For spiritual brainiacs and deep feeling thinkers.

For women whose minds analyze everything… because their hearts feel everything.

Your intellect is brilliant, but it was never meant to run the whole show.

The real question isn’t how to fix yourself; It’s how you relate to what feels out of your hands.

This community explores that, together.

Ready to Feel Free, Finally?

When you've tried it all...

Feel Free. Finally.

Freedom Lounge * Tea-Time With The U * Deep Conversations


A space for deep feeling thinkers. 

The Feel Free, Finally Community is a place where spiritually minded women explore a different relationship with life.

Many of us have spent years trying to understand ourselves.

Reading all the books.
Listening to podcasts.
Learning about psychology, manifestation, and healing.

But at some point, the constant effort to figure everything out becomes exhausting. That's because the deeper issue is rarely addressed: Our relationship with the Unknown

Inside this community, we explore a different possibility: What if freedom doesn't come from thinking harder or forcing outcomes...but from learning how to relate differently to what feels out of your hands?

Introducing a new philosophy

The moment something feels uncertain, uncontrollable, or unknown…the mind tries to take over.

This creates what I call The Doom Loop™. And most personal development approaches try to solve the Doom Loop from inside the loop itself.

Inside the Feel Free, Finally community, we explore something different: how to relate differently to the Unknown. Because that's where freedom starts. 

Why this space exists

Having personally experienced the frustration of doing all the things — healing past experiences, processing trauma, learning new tools — in the hope of finally feeling free, only to still feel stuck… I became deeply curious about what it truly takes to experience freedom.

As a transformational coach trainer, I knew how to dive deep. That wasn’t the issue.

In my search for how to truly let go of control, I discovered something subtle but powerful:
the body reacts the moment it senses something is out of its control.

For a brief moment there is an opening,  a natural relaxation in the body.

But most people never even notice it.

The body quickly contracts around the uncertainty… and the intellect rushes in to take over.

As long as this pattern is running, no amount of healing, analysis, or mindset work brings lasting relief.

That insight is why I created this space.

A place where deep-feeling thinkers can begin discovering a different relationship with what feels out of their hands — and experience the ease that becomes possible when the mind no longer has to run the whole show.

What's inside the community: 

The Freedom Lounge (Free)

The Freedom Lounge is a space for reflections, insights, and conversations about the patterns that keep us stuck — and the subtle shifts that begin opening the door to freedom.

Tea Time With The (Free)

Together with Joan Bell, coach / freedom catalyst for Throw It To The U, we do a bi-monthly tea time in our community where we are spilling the tea on living free!

The topic and format will be different each week. This can range from book reviews, movie discussions, Q&A sessions, tea leaf readings (aka live coaching). 

Sharing from both personal experience and working as coaches for the past 3 decades, we explore why so many people are still stuck. Most people in our community have gone through all different kinds of self help work: meditation, breathwork, coaching, NLP, manifestation / visualization etc. 

We dive deeper into all of these topics, what works and what doesn't, and why. And we invite you to join us whilst sipping your favorite beverage. 

A deeper, 7 day exploration: "Feel Free, Finally"

For those who want to go deeper, this guided mini-course explores the Doom Loop and how to begin making a U-turn toward trust.

(Available as an optional paid course inside the community.)

Here's your invitation to join us in the community

If you are a deep-feeling thinker who is curious about living with more ease and trust…

We'd love for you to join the conversation and bring a cup of tea (or whatever you love to sip).

Here's your invitation to join us in the community

If you are a deep-feeling thinker who is curious about living with more ease and trust…

We'd love for you to join the conversation and bring a cup of tea (or whatever you love to sip).

Free to join

Thoughtful conversations * Tea Time With The U

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Hosted by:

Femke Mortimore

Over the past 14 years I’ve trained coaches across the globe and worked with thousands of clients exploring what truly creates transformation.

After years of observing what works, and what doesn’t, I developed the Throw It To The U™ framework, integrating embodiment work, neuro-semantics and quantum principles.

This work has helped people experience profound shifts — from attracting clients unexpectedly to reclaiming energy, health and life direction.